
for whatever we lose (like a you or a me)
it’s always ourselves we find in the sea
-e. e. cummings
This weekend we decided to take advantage of the last 3-day weekend of the summer and head for the Oregon Coast.
Through some feat of magic, we manage to cram our stuff and my sister (and her rather large cooler) into our very SMALL car and we are on our way. We meet my parents in a tiny town called Gearhart just a few miles south of Astoria where we move into our home away from home… a condo with a pool and a playground and BEST OF ALL the beach just steps from our door.
I think I have mermaid in my blood or maybe a seagull ancestor. I feel the most alive when my toes are bare and sandy, my ears are filled with the sound of crashing surf, and when I am breathing in the salty damp air of the sea. Walking by the waves, splashing in the salty water, picking up sand dollars and shells, or relaxing in a low beach chair with a good book… this is when my body hums with happiness and my soul sighs a happy AHHHHHH.
Within minutes of our arrival at the beach, CJ is sprawled out in the sand, digging, piling, raking it with his fingers. He spends an hour building a home for a millipede and two hours racing back and forth from the edge of the ocean, madly throwing handfuls of wet sand at the frothy surf. HA HA HA HA HA! He shrieks as he leaps over the water, landing with a splash.
We drink pots of hot coffee with cream, feast on homemade pie and hotdogs fresh from the grill, take naps EVERY SINGLE DAY and treat ourselves to delicious ice-cream cones from Pop’s. Our most strenuous activity is strolling on the beach, and I wear the same pair of cropped jeans and a big sweatshirt the whole time.
We return home rested, rejuvenated, and content. Our car is sandy, our cheeks are pink, and we are ready to dive back into life.
***
Did you enjoy this post? Why not subscribe to email updates or the RSS feed. 
Like what you're reading? You can help me achieve my life-long dream of publishing a book by supporting this blog, which is a platform that can help me get published! (Click here to learn more about my book) There are lots of ways to show your support:
- Subscribe by RSS or Email
- Like Absolutely Bananas on Facebook
- Share this post on Facebook (click the link below "Related Posts")
- Tell a friend about Absolutely Bananas
- Leave a comment. They're like candy, but without the calories. :)
xo Jen

September 4, 2007 at 6:00 pm
Sounds heavenly!!
September 4, 2007 at 6:14 pm
i agree!! a perfect labor-free labor day weekend.
September 4, 2007 at 6:33 pm
We visited the beach Saturday. We don’t get to go to the beach very often but it really is so relaxing.
September 4, 2007 at 7:06 pm
Ahh, pure happiness!
September 4, 2007 at 7:13 pm
The sun, sand, surf are your heaven on earth. I could smell the salty air and the warm feel of sand on my feet from the description you’ve given.
Now it’s goodbye summer, and hello reality!
September 4, 2007 at 7:26 pm
That was poetry, Jenny, absolute poetry.
I adore cummings.
And I want to go to the beach now.
September 4, 2007 at 7:42 pm
ohh! This sounds like heaven! I too love the beach but being from the midwest I only get to see the ocean maybe once a year if I am lucky :-(
September 4, 2007 at 7:59 pm
I, too, think I may have a little mermaid in my blood. Maybe that’s why I always felt a kinship with Ariel.
Perhaps we’re ancestors?
Jane, Pinks & Blues Girls
September 4, 2007 at 8:15 pm
Yeah, I’m part mermaid too…
And I love Gearhart — I spent Christmas there about 10 years ago. Very relaxing!
September 4, 2007 at 8:32 pm
How do I go about getting my doctor to write me a prescription for that?
Sounds like a great weekend!
September 4, 2007 at 8:55 pm
I am so jealous. Hrmph.
September 4, 2007 at 10:11 pm
I LOVE Gearhart! My parents go there every year, and I’m so jealous. I haven’t been since college. Sigh…
September 5, 2007 at 5:07 am
Sounds divine! When our stinking heat dies down, we’re going straight to the beach – I want to go now!
September 5, 2007 at 5:19 am
Welcome Back!!! Sounds like you have a FABULOUS time! I’m now craving my vacation more then ever!
September 5, 2007 at 6:02 am
Oh, that sounds so nice… I love relaxing on the beach while the kids play – definitely a win-win for everyone! :)
September 5, 2007 at 6:46 am
There is something primeval about the sea that inevitably draws humans to it. It’s deep, it’s seemingly endless…and being 98% water, there is something magnetic between humans and oceans. Living in the Midwest I don’t get to visit them very often, but when I do, the soul-deep feeling of serenity and peace is rejuvenating.
September 5, 2007 at 7:49 am
Oh man I’m jealous! I miss living near the ocean. I agree with you, I’m most alive when I can dig my toes in the sand and listen to the surf. The smell of the ocean is so revitalizing! Great post!
September 5, 2007 at 9:15 am
Damn, all I did this weekend was laundry.
September 5, 2007 at 11:00 am
Looks like you had a great time. And that’s a wonderful picture of you! You look very happy!
September 5, 2007 at 11:17 am
Sounds like the most perfect ending to a summer that I can imagine!
September 5, 2007 at 11:57 am
That truly sounds like heaven on earth. I can’t believe summer is over already.
September 5, 2007 at 12:07 pm
I love the ocean – it’s part of my big dream when I *finally* get to settle down and not move. What great pictures…
September 5, 2007 at 1:15 pm
I imagine the coast was beautiful. I’ve never been there myself, but I looked at some photos online. They are gorgeous!
September 5, 2007 at 3:47 pm
You managed to get to the Oregon coast on one of the nice weather days!
September 5, 2007 at 4:44 pm
How fun! And you look like you know you’re in heaven! Sorry I’ve been neglecting you, but I get to see you in a reader now…WOOT!
September 5, 2007 at 5:27 pm
Oh, I believe in the sea.
For real.
Now what I can’t get is sweatshirts at the beach? uh? Won’t you have a heat stroke?
A beach that isn’t hot….now there’s something I need to experience.
September 5, 2007 at 5:44 pm
That sounds beyond amazing….so….why I didn’t I get my invitation??? I mean….did it get lost in the mail? ;-)
September 5, 2007 at 7:30 pm
Sounds perfect! We enjoyed our weekend at the beach in Clearwater, FL. Nice and very relaxing!
September 5, 2007 at 8:09 pm
That sounds perfect! I’d settle for any vacation that keeps my kids occupied for two hours. Can I come with you next year? :)
September 6, 2007 at 9:13 am
Oh, paradise! You look so happy in the picture! Glad you had so much fun.
September 6, 2007 at 12:05 pm
That sounds heavenly! And I love your picture! You look so relaxed and happy (well, who wouldn’t be?).
September 6, 2007 at 11:53 pm
What a glorious weekend!
And thanks so much for your kind comment on my blog. :)