Today marks 6 months since I packed up my boxes, turned off my computer, and shut off the light in my office for the very last time.
Six months since I quit my job to stay at home with my son.
Six months since I stopped receiving a paycheck
Six months since I had that first taste of freedom.
Six months since I had to answer to a boss other than myself.
Six months since I had to get up, showered, and presentable in order to get to work by 8 (or 9…)
How quickly time goes by!
This is a major milestone! A life event! A truly momentous occasion! (Hopefully my dear husband will read this post and bring me something fantastic to commemorate.) In the meantime, I feel that I should say something profound.
But profound is not my bag, baby. At least not right now. So instead, I’m going to play a little game I like to call “In and Out.” It’s like the thing they do in fashion mags… In: wedge sandals. Out: Birkenstocks. You know…
Here goes.
OUT: Requiring medicinal assistance just to go to sleep
IN: Sleeping soundly through the night
OUT: Panic attacks and high blood pressure
IN: Yoga
OUT: A whole day of meetings without so much as a bathroom break
IN: A whole day at the beach
OUT: Shaking hands with the sweaty palms of middle-aged businessmen
IN: Sweet, sticky kisses from my adoring son
OUT: Reading email
IN: Reading novels, biographies, non-fiction, blogs…
OUT: Writing email
IN: Writing blog entries, articles, my book
OUT: Spending inordinate amounts of time with people I really don’t like that much
IN: Getting together with the friends whose company I enjoy
OUT: Spending money on lattes, clothes, car payments, lunch…
IN: Not spending money
OUT: Wearing clothes that have to be dry-cleaned
IN: Wearing the same clothes every day
OUT: Living and breathing WORK
IN: Living and breathing PERIOD
OUT: Fluorescent light
IN: Sunshine
OUT: Recirculated air
IN: Fresh air
OUT: Sitting at a desk for hours and hours
IN: Walking, running, jumping, skipping, leaping
OUT: Guilt
IN: Happiness
“Now is the time to live your ideal life.” — Cousineau
I believe it now more than ever.
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July 5, 2007 at 5:04 pm
Love it! So many great points and there are probably 100 more!
July 5, 2007 at 5:22 pm
Oh Jenny! I love this post!
Congrats on making it to the 6 month mark.
I will be going back to work soon, and I am not really looking forward to it. This post gives me words as to why. Thanks!
July 5, 2007 at 5:27 pm
A very lovely post.
And I think your “Ins” are a great reminder about some of those nice simple wonderful things that we take for granted.
July 5, 2007 at 5:47 pm
A great post! I think in those times I find myself wondering ‘should I go back to work?, soon?’ I’ll just come here and read this post :)
July 5, 2007 at 6:00 pm
Awesome, awesome post. Thanks for the reminders. This really IS the time to live the ideal life. Love it.
July 5, 2007 at 6:21 pm
In Seattle Birkenstocks are never ever out!!!
Happy Anniversary!
July 5, 2007 at 6:22 pm
Great post! Very timely, as I’ve had the urge to get a job.
You’ve reminded me why I don’t really want to do that! Thanks!
July 5, 2007 at 6:53 pm
I thought you said it wasn’t going to be profound? That was amazing! And I don’t mean read it once and think “Oh, that’s kinda neat” amazing…I mean, “Wow! I want to print that out, frame it, and hang it on my wall amazing!”
Thanks so much for reminding me why I love my new job so much. =)
July 5, 2007 at 6:58 pm
Oh I so LOVE this post!
It’s perfect, perfect, perfect.
I am longing to be a SAHM more now then ever!
Oh, gotta go… meeting time. Ugh.
July 5, 2007 at 6:58 pm
Congrats…perhaps one day I’ll be able to join the world of the SAHM’s.
Oh wait I like money too much. Totally kidding :)
How great for you !!!
In my perfect world I’d only work out of the home about 10-15 hrs per week and still make the same income!
July 5, 2007 at 7:15 pm
Whoa! Major envy!
Congrats! I loved your in/out list.
July 5, 2007 at 7:28 pm
I agree so much AB.
I’ve been a SAHM for a while now.
I suppose at work I wouldn’t be playing hunt the poop, or where’s my mobile phone gone, but even so, your list makes up for all that.
love it.
July 5, 2007 at 7:52 pm
hi what’s your book about? fiction/non
i’m gonna write a book soon
i’ve already written one but didn’t like it so am starting on another
oh what was i going on about… fireworks at your friend’s blog… well i posted the story there some people are so stupid!
good day to you!
come to my blog and say hi!!
gleds
July 5, 2007 at 8:18 pm
Lucky you! So glad the SAHM role is working for you – sounds amazing.
July 5, 2007 at 9:32 pm
Great post. I so wish I felt that way about staying at home with the kiddos. Sadly, I think I may go back to work at the end of my one-year maternity leave, though, as I’m just not sure I’m cut out for this 24/7 thing. I’m so happy that your choice to stay home has worked out for you.
July 5, 2007 at 9:50 pm
YEAY YOU.
Can I link Ya? You are one of my favorite new finds. If you don’t want to be linked, just let me know. K?
July 5, 2007 at 11:24 pm
Staying at home does have it’s moments, doesn’t it?
July 5, 2007 at 11:55 pm
Nicely put!
July 6, 2007 at 1:23 am
Loved this post. (and the one you wrote when making the decision)
July 6, 2007 at 3:06 am
Great post! It is nice to be grateful. Glad you are happy with your decision. Good luck with the book writing.
July 6, 2007 at 3:27 am
Excellent! I’m all jealous and stuff now.
July 6, 2007 at 3:45 am
This is great! I do wish my husband could enjoy all of this with my daughter and I. Life as a stay at home mom would be perfect if that could happen.
July 6, 2007 at 7:16 pm
Awesome! Congrats on your no work anniversary.
July 6, 2007 at 7:47 pm
I loved this post! I loved your list of ins and outs:)
July 13, 2007 at 7:40 pm
Hey…we have the same life! Well, kinda…I left my office job over 2 years ago when I had Zander…and I never went back! SAHM Life is sweet, ain’t it?!?