Six months

Today marks 6 months since I packed up my boxes, turned off my computer, and shut off the light in my office for the very last time.

Six months since I quit my job to stay at home with my son.

Six months since I stopped receiving a paycheck

Six months since I had that first taste of freedom.

Six months since I had to answer to a boss other than myself.

Six months since I had to get up, showered, and presentable in order to get to work by 8 (or 9…)

How quickly time goes by!

This is a major milestone! A life event! A truly momentous occasion! (Hopefully my dear husband will read this post and bring me something fantastic to commemorate.) In the meantime, I feel that I should say something profound.

But profound is not my bag, baby. At least not right now. So instead, I’m going to play a little game I like to call “In and Out.” It’s like the thing they do in fashion mags… In: wedge sandals. Out: Birkenstocks. You know…

Here goes.

OUT: Requiring medicinal assistance just to go to sleep
IN: Sleeping soundly through the night

OUT: Panic attacks and high blood pressure
IN: Yoga

OUT: A whole day of meetings without so much as a bathroom break
IN: A whole day at the beach

OUT: Shaking hands with the sweaty palms of middle-aged businessmen
IN: Sweet, sticky kisses from my adoring son

OUT: Reading email
IN: Reading novels, biographies, non-fiction, blogs…

OUT: Writing email
IN: Writing blog entries, articles, my book

OUT: Spending inordinate amounts of time with people I really don’t like that much
IN: Getting together with the friends whose company I enjoy

OUT: Spending money on lattes, clothes, car payments, lunch…
IN: Not spending money

OUT: Wearing clothes that have to be dry-cleaned
IN: Wearing the same clothes every day

OUT: Living and breathing WORK
IN: Living and breathing PERIOD

OUT: Fluorescent light
IN: Sunshine

OUT: Recirculated air
IN: Fresh air

OUT: Sitting at a desk for hours and hours
IN: Walking, running, jumping, skipping, leaping

OUT: Guilt
IN: Happiness

“Now is the time to live your ideal life.” — Cousineau

I believe it now more than ever.

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25 Comments

  1. Love it! So many great points and there are probably 100 more!

  2. Oh Jenny! I love this post!

    Congrats on making it to the 6 month mark.

    I will be going back to work soon, and I am not really looking forward to it. This post gives me words as to why. Thanks!

  3. A very lovely post.
    And I think your “Ins” are a great reminder about some of those nice simple wonderful things that we take for granted.

  4. A great post! I think in those times I find myself wondering ‘should I go back to work?, soon?’ I’ll just come here and read this post :)

  5. Awesome, awesome post. Thanks for the reminders. This really IS the time to live the ideal life. Love it.

  6. In Seattle Birkenstocks are never ever out!!!

    Happy Anniversary!

  7. Great post! Very timely, as I’ve had the urge to get a job.

    You’ve reminded me why I don’t really want to do that! Thanks!

  8. I thought you said it wasn’t going to be profound? That was amazing! And I don’t mean read it once and think “Oh, that’s kinda neat” amazing…I mean, “Wow! I want to print that out, frame it, and hang it on my wall amazing!”

    Thanks so much for reminding me why I love my new job so much. =)

  9. Oh I so LOVE this post!

    It’s perfect, perfect, perfect.

    I am longing to be a SAHM more now then ever!

    Oh, gotta go… meeting time. Ugh.

  10. Congrats…perhaps one day I’ll be able to join the world of the SAHM’s.
    Oh wait I like money too much. Totally kidding :)

    How great for you !!!

    In my perfect world I’d only work out of the home about 10-15 hrs per week and still make the same income!

  11. Whoa! Major envy!

    Congrats! I loved your in/out list.

  12. I agree so much AB.

    I’ve been a SAHM for a while now.

    I suppose at work I wouldn’t be playing hunt the poop, or where’s my mobile phone gone, but even so, your list makes up for all that.

    love it.

  13. hi what’s your book about? fiction/non
    i’m gonna write a book soon
    i’ve already written one but didn’t like it so am starting on another
    oh what was i going on about… fireworks at your friend’s blog… well i posted the story there some people are so stupid!

    good day to you!
    come to my blog and say hi!!

    gleds

  14. Lucky you! So glad the SAHM role is working for you – sounds amazing.

  15. Great post. I so wish I felt that way about staying at home with the kiddos. Sadly, I think I may go back to work at the end of my one-year maternity leave, though, as I’m just not sure I’m cut out for this 24/7 thing. I’m so happy that your choice to stay home has worked out for you.

  16. YEAY YOU.

    Can I link Ya? You are one of my favorite new finds. If you don’t want to be linked, just let me know. K?

  17. Staying at home does have it’s moments, doesn’t it?

  18. Nicely put!

  19. Loved this post. (and the one you wrote when making the decision)

  20. Great post! It is nice to be grateful. Glad you are happy with your decision. Good luck with the book writing.

  21. Excellent! I’m all jealous and stuff now.

  22. This is great! I do wish my husband could enjoy all of this with my daughter and I. Life as a stay at home mom would be perfect if that could happen.

  23. Awesome! Congrats on your no work anniversary.

  24. I loved this post! I loved your list of ins and outs:)

  25. Hey…we have the same life! Well, kinda…I left my office job over 2 years ago when I had Zander…and I never went back! SAHM Life is sweet, ain’t it?!?