When bribery backfires

Potty training was our Everest.

We tried, and tried, and TRIED… and finally after countless failed attempts, we finally succeeded. I won’t bore you with the details (although feel free to bore yourself here, here, here, and here). A critical element of our eventual success was bribery, in the form of treats and Transformers.

Fast forward 6 months. CJ is fully potty trained; and has gone without an accident from day 1 (chalk it up as an advantage to potty training late). Those days of potty training are ancient history.

UNTIL there’s something that our dear boy wants. Suddenly, we’re right back there.

“Mom, after I go PEE, what will I get?”
“Dad, can I have a chocolate since I went POOP?”
“After I’m finished pooping, will I get a BIG TOY?”

No, No, and NO. I’m sorry to have to be the bad guy here, but those of us in the real world don’t get treats for voiding our bowels. Sorry.

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11 Comments

  1. Definitely an expectation that could cause problems if he doesn’t let it go. =P

  2. Argh! We have the same residual problem a our house – and the face I make when it happens (What! you expect treats for that!?) never seems to get the point across.

    Have faith, they con’t hold out forever.

  3. It would be so great if we did get a prize though. :)

  4. Oh, same here. We used chocolate pudding as a means of solving our daughter’s constipation issues. So very, very sorry now.

  5. Actually, after giving birth, I treated myself to some treats after those first poos. I deserved them!

  6. Hahaha. My son does the same thing!

    Just tell him that his reward for pooping is that he can find shapes like bridges and airplanes in his poop afterwards… hahahahahahahaha

  7. Hahaha! Monkey is going through the potty training now, and Volcano wonders why he doesn’t get a cute little chart with stickers and prizes for using the bathroom. I told him it was because he was already a pro, and Monkey was still in training, but he’s not buying it…

  8. I totally think I deserve a prize afterwards. Just how many royal poos are there in the world, hmm? LMAO…CJ is one funny boy!

  9. Aren’t they so clever!

    We are beginning to experience this joy as well, although I’d do anything to have my son poop in the potty at this point!

  10. Wow…thanks for the warning ’cause we are starting think it’s getting time to start trying with Zander.

    Note to self: no bribes when potty training!

    Ya…I say that now…but as parents we do what we’ve gotta do!

  11. there were some pregnant poops I had that were deserving of a big toy.
    I never got one though.